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The hysterical woman makes herself emotionally available, and she demands that someone respond to her text rather than accept that she's been ghosted. Hysterical women are not mysterious or elusive, and they don't pretend that nothing is bothering us. To be hysterical is to be genuine.

For centuries, women have been urged to repress their emotions in order to placate men.

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Owning the thing we have been conditioned to fear most is the first step. To accept hysteria is the only way to eradicate it and any new form it may take.

We have this violent world where powerful men do battle, but not once do we see a woman throw herself at a man because of his status. If you want easy pussy. Strong, independent women know how to hustle and get stuff done, which makes us hot as hell — but at the end of the day, we just want to come home and relax. The pressure to be "chill" is just the modern iteration of calling women "crazy" and "hysterical.".

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Girl Writer. The pressure to be "chill" is just the modern iteration of calling women "crazy" and "hysterical.

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